i hate group work

i really do. a lot of the times i can convince myself it's really not so bad, just sit back and don't try to be responsible for everyone else. just do your part and do it well. be nice and friendly and forgiving and just don't worry about it. but really deep down i think i hate it. or maybe it's just this time - we're having to collaborate online on a presentation and the group i was assigned to doesn't really fit in with my piece - so that's a bit frustrating. but the really bad part, the part that just makes my stomach irritated with frustration is when people think you're an idiot. apparently i have deep rooted issues when people seem to assign me to the "you're incompetent group." it really wasn't a huge deal, but it's still bothering me for some reason...i posted up a very short, preliminary blurb on what i found and someone responded with something like "is that all you found, maybe you better meet with someone to pick their brain." i'm sure this was written with the best of friendly nice helpful intentions, but i instantly got up my "I am competent, give me a minute" attitude. horrible, i know.